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	<title>Comments for DESIRING HAYDEN [CHRISTENSEN] .NET  Your #1 Source for Everything Hayden Christensen  2002-2010</title>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by Sa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 04:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Jen, I remember way back in the day about your site and I am so happy to see it still up. I hope you do what you feel you have to do and wish you the best in your life!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Jen, I remember way back in the day about your site and I am so happy to see it still up. I hope you do what you feel you have to do and wish you the best in your life!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by diamondeyed</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11145</link>
		<dc:creator>diamondeyed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 02:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much, Jen. Your past efforts have been greatly appreciated and your decision to keep DH.net open is one I&#039;m grateful for. I&#039;m looking forward to seeing you on DeviantART constantly now that you have more free time (My username is Rosecrystals in case you&#039;re wondering who the hell this is, lol. You&#039;re on my &#039;watch&#039; list and I comment on your stuff often.) It&#039;ll be nice to see more of your digital artwork and adorable pictures of Doughie. Good luck in all your endeavors. :D
Again, thank you for being an awesome webmistress!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much, Jen. Your past efforts have been greatly appreciated and your decision to keep DH.net open is one I&#8217;m grateful for. I&#8217;m looking forward to seeing you on DeviantART constantly now that you have more free time (My username is Rosecrystals in case you&#8217;re wondering who the hell this is, lol. You&#8217;re on my &#8216;watch&#8217; list and I comment on your stuff often.) It&#8217;ll be nice to see more of your digital artwork and adorable pictures of Doughie. Good luck in all your endeavors. :D<br />
Again, thank you for being an awesome webmistress!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by Julie</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11140</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 14:45:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Jen - I find your presence soothing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Jen &#8211; I find your presence soothing.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by Barbara</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11134</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 03:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So happy to read this!  :))</description>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by LadySkywalker30</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11120</link>
		<dc:creator>LadySkywalker30</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 00:38:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No necesitas pociones , ni hechizos a mi me basta como Dios te hizo!  Amore Mio! Te deseo que pases unos Super Dulces 31 en compañía de tooooda tu family, amigos y fans que te aman. Qué Dios y la Sma Virgen te colmen de muchisisisisisisisimas bendiciones y te otorguen muchisisisisima Salud  y Vida para que sigas cumpliendo muchisisisisisisisimos años mas de vida. XOXOXOXOXO  ;-)
Madame Skywalker
Cauquenes , Chile 19 Abril de 2012</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No necesitas pociones , ni hechizos a mi me basta como Dios te hizo!  Amore Mio! Te deseo que pases unos Super Dulces 31 en compañía de tooooda tu family, amigos y fans que te aman. Qué Dios y la Sma Virgen te colmen de muchisisisisisisisimas bendiciones y te otorguen muchisisisisima Salud  y Vida para que sigas cumpliendo muchisisisisisisisimos años mas de vida. XOXOXOXOXO  ;-)<br />
Madame Skywalker<br />
Cauquenes , Chile 19 Abril de 2012</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by Jesse</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11119</link>
		<dc:creator>Jesse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 23:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAYDEN YOU ROCK MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Have fun with Rachel and your niece in Barbados.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAYDEN YOU ROCK MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />
Have fun with Rachel and your niece in Barbados.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by JESSICA WEST</title>
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		<dc:creator>JESSICA WEST</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 22:02:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAYDEN. ENJOY YOU DAY WITH YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ESPECIALLY RACHEL BILSON. I AM ALSO HAPPY THAT THE SITE IS STILL OPEN.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAYDEN. ENJOY YOU DAY WITH YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ESPECIALLY RACHEL BILSON. I AM ALSO HAPPY THAT THE SITE IS STILL OPEN.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by lori</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11116</link>
		<dc:creator>lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 20:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for leaving the site open.  Happy birthday Hayden</description>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by Rita from Rome</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rita from Rome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 19:34:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really heartly thank you for giving us this fantastic gift!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really heartly thank you for giving us this fantastic gift!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by MadameSkywalker30</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11114</link>
		<dc:creator>MadameSkywalker30</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 18:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Super Dulces 31 Amore Mio!!!! Por la luna doy un beso, por el sol doy

un montón, por la luz de tu mirada,
alma, vida y corazón.  Desde Chile Te deseo ke en el dia de hoy pases un muy Feliz Cumpleaños en compañia de toda tu familia y de todos los ke te amamos, que se te cumplan toditos tus deseos, ke se te hagan realidad toditos tus sueños y ke Dios ny la Sma Virgen te den haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarta Salud y Vida pa que  sigas cumpiendo muchisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisimos añitos mas de vida pa segiur contemplando tu sobrenatural belleza. BENDICIONES!!!! TE AMO !!!!!! ;-) ;-) ;-) :-* :-* :-*  :-) :-) :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Super Dulces 31 Amore Mio!!!! Por la luna doy un beso, por el sol doy</p>
<p>un montón, por la luz de tu mirada,<br />
alma, vida y corazón.  Desde Chile Te deseo ke en el dia de hoy pases un muy Feliz Cumpleaños en compañia de toda tu familia y de todos los ke te amamos, que se te cumplan toditos tus deseos, ke se te hagan realidad toditos tus sueños y ke Dios ny la Sma Virgen te den haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarta Salud y Vida pa que  sigas cumpiendo muchisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisisimos añitos mas de vida pa segiur contemplando tu sobrenatural belleza. BENDICIONES!!!! TE AMO !!!!!! ;-) ;-) ;-) :-* :-* :-*  :-) :-) :-)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by anne</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11113</link>
		<dc:creator>anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 17:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>p.s. Happy Birthday today for Hayden.  It&#039;s also my Moms, so I&#039;m  gathering nice suprises for her today. Thanks again, Jen. Anne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>p.s. Happy Birthday today for Hayden.  It&#8217;s also my Moms, so I&#8217;m  gathering nice suprises for her today. Thanks again, Jen. Anne</p>
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		<title>Comment on Site News by anne</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/site-news-7/comment-page-1/#comment-11112</link>
		<dc:creator>anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 17:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Jen.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by kat</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-2/#comment-11111</link>
		<dc:creator>kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2012 17:43:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree it would be great to archive it too.  I don&#039;t think that Hayden or his family would want you do anything that would take any more precious time from your valuable life. You&#039;ve done quite enough for us fans and for Hayden. I think that is where Hayden or his family would be appreciative.  Archive it if you think it would be good all around for everyone including yourself.  I guarantee you Hayden or his family really aren&#039;t sitting on the edge of their seats waiting to see what you will decide as they continue to live their lives.  It&#039;s time to live yours and not worry about us and what everyone else will want.  It would be nice to archive this place for the fans sake.  Hayden or his family will not be any more appreciative if you decided to scrap everything.  I&#039;m sure everyone should just be happy and appreciate what you&#039;ve done already.  No one should expect you do anything more and it is selfish for anyone to EXPECT anything of you dear.  If it is allowable for you to archive it then do it.  But don&#039;t take away from your life trying to do what every fan would want you to do.  Have a great time living your life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree it would be great to archive it too.  I don&#8217;t think that Hayden or his family would want you do anything that would take any more precious time from your valuable life. You&#8217;ve done quite enough for us fans and for Hayden. I think that is where Hayden or his family would be appreciative.  Archive it if you think it would be good all around for everyone including yourself.  I guarantee you Hayden or his family really aren&#8217;t sitting on the edge of their seats waiting to see what you will decide as they continue to live their lives.  It&#8217;s time to live yours and not worry about us and what everyone else will want.  It would be nice to archive this place for the fans sake.  Hayden or his family will not be any more appreciative if you decided to scrap everything.  I&#8217;m sure everyone should just be happy and appreciate what you&#8217;ve done already.  No one should expect you do anything more and it is selfish for anyone to EXPECT anything of you dear.  If it is allowable for you to archive it then do it.  But don&#8217;t take away from your life trying to do what every fan would want you to do.  Have a great time living your life.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2012 07:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Archive. It&#039;s a history of this person that you have thousands of hours into. You deserve to let it stand. Hayden and his family I think, would appreciate it too. Even if he does nothing else, which I doubt, then this is his scrapbook. I hope that you do archive it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Archive. It&#8217;s a history of this person that you have thousands of hours into. You deserve to let it stand. Hayden and his family I think, would appreciate it too. Even if he does nothing else, which I doubt, then this is his scrapbook. I hope that you do archive it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by MC</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-2/#comment-11081</link>
		<dc:creator>MC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 01:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You ought to never let any good thing go to waste.  However, you ought never let a website or celebrity fans guide your thinking once you have already made a decision to part ways.  Archiving the site is favourable and you can do so without losing anything.  At the same time you won&#039;t be sacrificing your life.  Get to your own life.  That is more important than Hayden.  He&#039;s a good guy.  But he wouldn&#039;t want you dragging this on behalf of what his fans think.  Regardless of what anyone says in favour of you as they flatter you, they will never really understand what you&#039;ve had to sacrifice to make this a number one site for Hayden.  I will go even farther to say that not even Hayden really understands in the way that really matters.  The important thing is that you have given it your best shot and have created a place everyone can remember.  And if you archive it, then it will be a place they can visit in the future to remember.  You ought not allow anyone take your site over.  No matter how much I trust anyone I would never trust them to run my business for me or take my money to the bank.  There is too much politics behind things like this.  Be good to yourself and take the best path for you Ms. Jennifer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You ought to never let any good thing go to waste.  However, you ought never let a website or celebrity fans guide your thinking once you have already made a decision to part ways.  Archiving the site is favourable and you can do so without losing anything.  At the same time you won&#8217;t be sacrificing your life.  Get to your own life.  That is more important than Hayden.  He&#8217;s a good guy.  But he wouldn&#8217;t want you dragging this on behalf of what his fans think.  Regardless of what anyone says in favour of you as they flatter you, they will never really understand what you&#8217;ve had to sacrifice to make this a number one site for Hayden.  I will go even farther to say that not even Hayden really understands in the way that really matters.  The important thing is that you have given it your best shot and have created a place everyone can remember.  And if you archive it, then it will be a place they can visit in the future to remember.  You ought not allow anyone take your site over.  No matter how much I trust anyone I would never trust them to run my business for me or take my money to the bank.  There is too much politics behind things like this.  Be good to yourself and take the best path for you Ms. Jennifer.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by reyna</title>
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		<dc:creator>reyna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 00:08:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Archive your site.  Don&#039;t hand it over to someone else.  If it&#039;s that important to you stay with it.  But never give it over to someone else.  I&#039;m not sure why it&#039;s important now what anyone thinks.  None of these people cared much to participate in anything for a long time here.  You will always be a fan and you&#039;ll always have everything you&#039;ve ever collected.  But you only have one life to live.  So live it and without regret.  Archive your site luv and be happy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Archive your site.  Don&#8217;t hand it over to someone else.  If it&#8217;s that important to you stay with it.  But never give it over to someone else.  I&#8217;m not sure why it&#8217;s important now what anyone thinks.  None of these people cared much to participate in anything for a long time here.  You will always be a fan and you&#8217;ll always have everything you&#8217;ve ever collected.  But you only have one life to live.  So live it and without regret.  Archive your site luv and be happy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2012 21:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Jen, I don&#039;t know what goes into creating a website; in spite of this, here is what I think. If the site is closed it&#039;s gone like it never existed. If the site is archived it can still be viewed, however the site is in limbo, like it doesn&#039;t have a past or a future. If someone you consider trustworthy takes over the site, it stays open, and in a few years if you&#039;re having a boring day, you could visit the site you started and see what&#039;s going on. I like the 3rd option! Best of Everything Jen! From Anne the Artist.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Jen, I don&#8217;t know what goes into creating a website; in spite of this, here is what I think. If the site is closed it&#8217;s gone like it never existed. If the site is archived it can still be viewed, however the site is in limbo, like it doesn&#8217;t have a past or a future. If someone you consider trustworthy takes over the site, it stays open, and in a few years if you&#8217;re having a boring day, you could visit the site you started and see what&#8217;s going on. I like the 3rd option! Best of Everything Jen! From Anne the Artist.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by 10 year visitor</title>
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		<dc:creator>10 year visitor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2012 21:38:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jen....Iʻm sure itʻs difficult but as a fan of you, this site, and of course, Hayden...I saw hand over the reigns. Donʻt close it...youʻve put too much work into it to just let it go. Get a small search committee together, of maybe 2 or 3 of your most trusted visitors and have them sort out the applications and present you with 2 finalists and then decide. But shutting down this fantastic site (and forum) would be such a waste.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jen&#8230;.Iʻm sure itʻs difficult but as a fan of you, this site, and of course, Hayden&#8230;I saw hand over the reigns. Donʻt close it&#8230;youʻve put too much work into it to just let it go. Get a small search committee together, of maybe 2 or 3 of your most trusted visitors and have them sort out the applications and present you with 2 finalists and then decide. But shutting down this fantastic site (and forum) would be such a waste.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Mariah</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-2/#comment-11001</link>
		<dc:creator>Mariah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 10:52:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just found this site today, and was all excited and then.... :-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just found this site today, and was all excited and then&#8230;. :-(</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Andra</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-2/#comment-10994</link>
		<dc:creator>Andra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Mar 2012 19:20:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It might be nice to archive it just for the fans sake.  But no website is important to our living our lives so the same should apply to you.  You do what is important to you.  Is it going to take up much of your time to archive it?  If that be the case, and it&#039;s going to take too much time to archive don&#039;t worry over it.  Some people  don&#039;t act like they care or comprehend that you may have a life and need to use your time for other things other than archiving or handling the dismantling of it all.  If you do have time to archive it and leave it like that then that would be good for everyone else.  But it&#039;s not up to all of us honey.  So I wish you the best with your life.

There are more important things in living your life than carrying on or worrying about a website.  We, the fans, would like an archived page at least.  If you don&#039;t have time or priority for it then I can understand if you let it go.  And it&#039;s ok and nothing to feel guilty over.  You&#039;re not wasting anything by letting go of something.  People put lots of years of creativity into their homes and still they sell their homes and move on for something better.  It&#039;s really only the fans who are going to say that you&#039;d be wasting it away by getting rid of it.  In truth it&#039;s not a waste.  Your efforts you put into this website is the same as it was even if you get rid of the photo gallery.  I think you ought to listen to yourself and not us fans.  If it&#039;s going to take up your time or distract you from your life that you want to get on with then don&#039;t worry about this website.  The website was great but it is not your life.  Your life is more valuable.  Do what you have time for and what you feel is best for you.

Your website was fabulous by the way.  It was the best Hayden site out there.  There are other good ones now like Hayden fan News and others.  But still this was the first and the best of them all. You have learned much from having a website and maintaining one.  I&#039;m sure you have acquired all of these wonderful skills to help you in your career.  And I know you&#039;ll have a wonderful future with your family.  Take care of yourself and be good to yourself. That is all that is important.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It might be nice to archive it just for the fans sake.  But no website is important to our living our lives so the same should apply to you.  You do what is important to you.  Is it going to take up much of your time to archive it?  If that be the case, and it&#8217;s going to take too much time to archive don&#8217;t worry over it.  Some people  don&#8217;t act like they care or comprehend that you may have a life and need to use your time for other things other than archiving or handling the dismantling of it all.  If you do have time to archive it and leave it like that then that would be good for everyone else.  But it&#8217;s not up to all of us honey.  So I wish you the best with your life.</p>
<p>There are more important things in living your life than carrying on or worrying about a website.  We, the fans, would like an archived page at least.  If you don&#8217;t have time or priority for it then I can understand if you let it go.  And it&#8217;s ok and nothing to feel guilty over.  You&#8217;re not wasting anything by letting go of something.  People put lots of years of creativity into their homes and still they sell their homes and move on for something better.  It&#8217;s really only the fans who are going to say that you&#8217;d be wasting it away by getting rid of it.  In truth it&#8217;s not a waste.  Your efforts you put into this website is the same as it was even if you get rid of the photo gallery.  I think you ought to listen to yourself and not us fans.  If it&#8217;s going to take up your time or distract you from your life that you want to get on with then don&#8217;t worry about this website.  The website was great but it is not your life.  Your life is more valuable.  Do what you have time for and what you feel is best for you.</p>
<p>Your website was fabulous by the way.  It was the best Hayden site out there.  There are other good ones now like Hayden fan News and others.  But still this was the first and the best of them all. You have learned much from having a website and maintaining one.  I&#8217;m sure you have acquired all of these wonderful skills to help you in your career.  And I know you&#8217;ll have a wonderful future with your family.  Take care of yourself and be good to yourself. That is all that is important.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Ian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Mar 2012 11:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you should archive it. Don&#039;t let all your hard work go to waste by closing the site. Leave it as an archive type website, so everyone can still share your hard work that you put into this site...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you should archive it. Don&#8217;t let all your hard work go to waste by closing the site. Leave it as an archive type website, so everyone can still share your hard work that you put into this site&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Karen Robinsin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Robinsin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2012 07:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jen this has been a Densational Sight. Im sorry to see it go.
I love visiting this sight, and its so rare to find anything anywhere else on Hayden.
He is no.1 in my book of favourite actors.

I Love Hayden

Thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jen this has been a Densational Sight. Im sorry to see it go.<br />
I love visiting this sight, and its so rare to find anything anywhere else on Hayden.<br />
He is no.1 in my book of favourite actors.</p>
<p>I Love Hayden</p>
<p>Thank you</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2012 05:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I say archive it, my friend.  You shouldn&#039;t do something your heart is no longer in bb.  It would be kewl to archive it so at least we&#039;d have a encyclopedia of his works and things to refer to when needed/wanted.  You&#039;ve done a great job on this site.  it&#039;s time now for you to go off onto bigger and better things. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I say archive it, my friend.  You shouldn&#8217;t do something your heart is no longer in bb.  It would be kewl to archive it so at least we&#8217;d have a encyclopedia of his works and things to refer to when needed/wanted.  You&#8217;ve done a great job on this site.  it&#8217;s time now for you to go off onto bigger and better things. :)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by J</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10932</link>
		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2012 02:41:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Jennifer.  I may get philosophical.  Forgive me.  Don&#039;t be indecisive where you have already made it clear your priorities have changed and intent on getting on with your life.  Inviting so many people to make suggestions at all (which funny they all come out of the woodwork since no one has been coming to this place in ages) will only confuse you.  You are a person and you have your family and your life.  You need to just live it and not worry about all of this.  This website and photos- they are just things.  And although the legacy of this website will remain intact and are GREAT in the eyes of the fans they have a problem seeing you as a human being who needs to make her life and family GREAT apart from some website which doesn&#039;t make you who you are.  The fans are just thinking of these pictures of Hayden and great memories.  Nothing wrong with that.  However,  You are more important than a gallery of collected photos and information.  Don&#039;t spend too much time trying to figure out what to do.  Before long you&#039;ll just talk yourself, or let Hayden&#039;s fans talk you back into holding onto something that is emotionally hard for you to let go of to begin with.  They are just Hayden&#039;s fan.  They are NOT your fan.  They might say they admire you and honour you.  They like Hayden or have liked him at one point.  I truly believe Hayden would tell you to move on with your life, and that if you had not already had a plan to archive this place; then why are you second guessing yourself?  I&#039;m pretty sure the guy wouldn&#039;t want you to toil with the frivolities of a website.  I don&#039;t care how many pictures are on it.  Hayden does not glorify himself.  The fans do.  And I don&#039;t think he would want you to second guess yourself.  I think you know what you wanted to do.  You ought to just do it and get it over with.  And then walk away from it sweetheart. And have a great life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Jennifer.  I may get philosophical.  Forgive me.  Don&#8217;t be indecisive where you have already made it clear your priorities have changed and intent on getting on with your life.  Inviting so many people to make suggestions at all (which funny they all come out of the woodwork since no one has been coming to this place in ages) will only confuse you.  You are a person and you have your family and your life.  You need to just live it and not worry about all of this.  This website and photos- they are just things.  And although the legacy of this website will remain intact and are GREAT in the eyes of the fans they have a problem seeing you as a human being who needs to make her life and family GREAT apart from some website which doesn&#8217;t make you who you are.  The fans are just thinking of these pictures of Hayden and great memories.  Nothing wrong with that.  However,  You are more important than a gallery of collected photos and information.  Don&#8217;t spend too much time trying to figure out what to do.  Before long you&#8217;ll just talk yourself, or let Hayden&#8217;s fans talk you back into holding onto something that is emotionally hard for you to let go of to begin with.  They are just Hayden&#8217;s fan.  They are NOT your fan.  They might say they admire you and honour you.  They like Hayden or have liked him at one point.  I truly believe Hayden would tell you to move on with your life, and that if you had not already had a plan to archive this place; then why are you second guessing yourself?  I&#8217;m pretty sure the guy wouldn&#8217;t want you to toil with the frivolities of a website.  I don&#8217;t care how many pictures are on it.  Hayden does not glorify himself.  The fans do.  And I don&#8217;t think he would want you to second guess yourself.  I think you know what you wanted to do.  You ought to just do it and get it over with.  And then walk away from it sweetheart. And have a great life.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Rita from Moscow</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10929</link>
		<dc:creator>Rita from Moscow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 23:03:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jen, you have a female pride? and human dignity? close it and don&#039;t think more! there is something, and you know it. there is no uniqueness in your site.
He doesn&#039;t want you.
Live. be successful. 
Marry, give birth to beautiful healthy children.
Close this period of your life. While one door won&#039;t be closed, another won&#039;t open!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jen, you have a female pride? and human dignity? close it and don&#8217;t think more! there is something, and you know it. there is no uniqueness in your site.<br />
He doesn&#8217;t want you.<br />
Live. be successful.<br />
Marry, give birth to beautiful healthy children.<br />
Close this period of your life. While one door won&#8217;t be closed, another won&#8217;t open!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by genele</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10919</link>
		<dc:creator>genele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 18:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Jen for 10 amazing years of Everything Hayden! It breaks my heart that this wonderful site will be closing, but I understand it may be time for you to move on to other things..maybe you could pass the torch to someone else? I agree with the others It would be such a waste of your hardwork to have everyhting cleared out,,Since we all know he&#039;s such a hard person to keep up with! lol..This is the only site where you can truly have updated news and info about him, be proud!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Jen for 10 amazing years of Everything Hayden! It breaks my heart that this wonderful site will be closing, but I understand it may be time for you to move on to other things..maybe you could pass the torch to someone else? I agree with the others It would be such a waste of your hardwork to have everyhting cleared out,,Since we all know he&#8217;s such a hard person to keep up with! lol..This is the only site where you can truly have updated news and info about him, be proud!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by lolosun</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10900</link>
		<dc:creator>lolosun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 12:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please archive the site, at least. Don&#039;t massacre all these years of work.
Thank you</description>
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Thank you</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by diamondeyed</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10895</link>
		<dc:creator>diamondeyed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 04:33:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been visiting this site since I was 13 years old and I have to say that it&#039;s been a significant part of my life. Seeing it close will be very sad. But I also understand that you&#039;ve reached a point in your life when you want to move onto other things. This site I&#039;m guessing has probably been a huge responsibility for you. I would be sad if the site closed completely. Perhaps like others have been saying you can archive the galleries, media sections etc and just close the main page and stop updating. No other Hayden site on the web is as comprehensive as yours and it would be a huge loss for it to close completely. You&#039;ve put all this time and effort into it so why get rid of the results of that great effort? Again, archiving it and getting rid of the homepage would probably benefit both you and the fans. It&#039;s been a pleasure, Jen. Thanks for 8 wonderful years. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been visiting this site since I was 13 years old and I have to say that it&#8217;s been a significant part of my life. Seeing it close will be very sad. But I also understand that you&#8217;ve reached a point in your life when you want to move onto other things. This site I&#8217;m guessing has probably been a huge responsibility for you. I would be sad if the site closed completely. Perhaps like others have been saying you can archive the galleries, media sections etc and just close the main page and stop updating. No other Hayden site on the web is as comprehensive as yours and it would be a huge loss for it to close completely. You&#8217;ve put all this time and effort into it so why get rid of the results of that great effort? Again, archiving it and getting rid of the homepage would probably benefit both you and the fans. It&#8217;s been a pleasure, Jen. Thanks for 8 wonderful years. :)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Ami</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10892</link>
		<dc:creator>Ami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 02:53:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my.  Don&#039;t let people try to pressure you into staying with what you decided to walk away from for your life and personal choices.  Give the site up to someone who won&#039;t mind looking after an archived place.  And oh my word dear.  Don&#039;t let someone else run the site for you.  Just archive it and have them look in on it.  I would never let anyone, especially a fan, a hold of it. I wouldn&#039;t particularly imagine allowing a fan take it over nor even my closest friend.  I could possibly see having a friend watch the archived site maybe but not taking the existing one over.  

You should get to where you are wanting to go in your life and do it as painless as possible.  That&#039;s why I suggest to archive your site and have a friend to watch over it.  You don&#039;t need anymore to do with something your heart is not in and where your priorities have changed.  At the same time there are plenty of people who are just waiting to take things over in the name of Desiring Hayden.  You might trust them, but oh dear... too many friends are lost over things like this.  Exactly the reason if I were you I&#039;d just archive the dear photos for the care of another to watch over. Walk away for your life purposes which is far better for you.  That&#039;s more important.  And be proud of what you&#039;ve done and then enjoy your life.  Don&#039;t feel guilty for walking away.  You should be proud of what you&#039;ve done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my.  Don&#8217;t let people try to pressure you into staying with what you decided to walk away from for your life and personal choices.  Give the site up to someone who won&#8217;t mind looking after an archived place.  And oh my word dear.  Don&#8217;t let someone else run the site for you.  Just archive it and have them look in on it.  I would never let anyone, especially a fan, a hold of it. I wouldn&#8217;t particularly imagine allowing a fan take it over nor even my closest friend.  I could possibly see having a friend watch the archived site maybe but not taking the existing one over.  </p>
<p>You should get to where you are wanting to go in your life and do it as painless as possible.  That&#8217;s why I suggest to archive your site and have a friend to watch over it.  You don&#8217;t need anymore to do with something your heart is not in and where your priorities have changed.  At the same time there are plenty of people who are just waiting to take things over in the name of Desiring Hayden.  You might trust them, but oh dear&#8230; too many friends are lost over things like this.  Exactly the reason if I were you I&#8217;d just archive the dear photos for the care of another to watch over. Walk away for your life purposes which is far better for you.  That&#8217;s more important.  And be proud of what you&#8217;ve done and then enjoy your life.  Don&#8217;t feel guilty for walking away.  You should be proud of what you&#8217;ve done.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by pennyc</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10887</link>
		<dc:creator>pennyc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 20:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jen you&#039;ve done a terrific job over the last 10 years and I for one, have been more than happy to send you contributions from the UK.  

My personal legacy has been the memories, particularly staying up late into the night awaiting live reports from Hayden&#039;s premieres etc. and sharing the excitment on the forum which has led to continuing friendships across the globe.

As to what to do with the site, in the end it&#039;s your baby and the decision, what ever it is, I think should be made in your best interests.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jen you&#8217;ve done a terrific job over the last 10 years and I for one, have been more than happy to send you contributions from the UK.  </p>
<p>My personal legacy has been the memories, particularly staying up late into the night awaiting live reports from Hayden&#8217;s premieres etc. and sharing the excitment on the forum which has led to continuing friendships across the globe.</p>
<p>As to what to do with the site, in the end it&#8217;s your baby and the decision, what ever it is, I think should be made in your best interests.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Seth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 15:22:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>THE CHRISTENSEN EMPIRE WILL RISE AGAIN!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by bridie</title>
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		<dc:creator>bridie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 10:14:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>PLEASE don&#039;t shut the site down completely. If it&#039;s not for someone else taking it over, then please keep the galleries and media section. You put so much effort into saving and publishing all those goodies, it&#039;ll be a shame to see it all go to waste. So please keep it open/try to archive most of it!! I&#039;m sure it&#039;ll be much appreaciated by loads of loyal fans. :)

All the best for you, Jen!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PLEASE don&#8217;t shut the site down completely. If it&#8217;s not for someone else taking it over, then please keep the galleries and media section. You put so much effort into saving and publishing all those goodies, it&#8217;ll be a shame to see it all go to waste. So please keep it open/try to archive most of it!! I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;ll be much appreaciated by loads of loyal fans. :)</p>
<p>All the best for you, Jen!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Nadia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 06:06:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you should let someone take it over. I can&#039;t imagine the site frozen. This is an amazing, awesome, fantastic, incredible page, seriously, the best website I&#039;ve ever seen. 
I followed DH.net since... A realy long time. I&#039;d never commented but I&#039;d always was there. Reading all the news, watching all the pictures and videos. 
You should just give your friends a try, an opportunity. I don&#039;t think they&#039;ll screw up the website or whatever. 
However, It&#039;s still been your choice. Your future life is more important than a website. If you can&#039;t handle it anymore, don&#039;t worry, do the Archive thing. 
I mean, anything would be better then close the page.

Best wishes for you, I hope you have an amazing life, Jen. Thank you so much for everything and please don&#039;t forget to visit us soon =3
Kisses from Argentina =)

(Sorry about the bad English hahaha)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you should let someone take it over. I can&#8217;t imagine the site frozen. This is an amazing, awesome, fantastic, incredible page, seriously, the best website I&#8217;ve ever seen.<br />
I followed DH.net since&#8230; A realy long time. I&#8217;d never commented but I&#8217;d always was there. Reading all the news, watching all the pictures and videos.<br />
You should just give your friends a try, an opportunity. I don&#8217;t think they&#8217;ll screw up the website or whatever.<br />
However, It&#8217;s still been your choice. Your future life is more important than a website. If you can&#8217;t handle it anymore, don&#8217;t worry, do the Archive thing.<br />
I mean, anything would be better then close the page.</p>
<p>Best wishes for you, I hope you have an amazing life, Jen. Thank you so much for everything and please don&#8217;t forget to visit us soon =3<br />
Kisses from Argentina =)</p>
<p>(Sorry about the bad English hahaha)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Stacy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 04:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Look at it this way - if you don&#039;t have time and interest in maintaining the site while H is doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, how could you hold the site up to your standards if/when he actually returns to work and there&#039;s news to share other than who he&#039;s having lunch with or where he&#039;s going on vacation from his vacation?? If your heart is saying let go then that&#039;s what you should do, no matter who it disappoints.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look at it this way &#8211; if you don&#8217;t have time and interest in maintaining the site while H is doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, how could you hold the site up to your standards if/when he actually returns to work and there&#8217;s news to share other than who he&#8217;s having lunch with or where he&#8217;s going on vacation from his vacation?? If your heart is saying let go then that&#8217;s what you should do, no matter who it disappoints.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by loyalty</title>
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		<dc:creator>loyalty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 02:35:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I say let it go and move on with your life.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Roxi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roxi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 01:51:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jen, ah chick. if ya aren&#039;t sure about it and have to ask everyone then you might not be ready to just let it go.  that&#039;s normal though after putting your life into something so long. no one else can really make your decision for you.  either give it up for whatever reason that is personal to you or hang onto it.  doesn&#039;t matter.  you did your part. and if you give it to someone else it will be theirs and not much yours anymore.  think about that. but at least you can keep the library of photos and your information archived. 

it&#039;s not really up to the fans.  you know what they want.  it&#039;s about what you want and are ready to live with.  you&#039;re the one paying for the website.  you&#039;re the one putting your time, effort and thoughts into it, basically your life.  if you want it, keep it even if you have to give it to someone else maintain.  just do what ya gotta do. your the decision maker. no one else was even really visiting the site dear. and it&#039;s not because of you or because of anything you did.  it&#039;s not because you weren&#039;t appreciated.  you were.  it&#039;s because of lack of interest during a very quiet time. and life has gone on for everyone else - even for hayden. and he&#039;ll have his big moments i&#039;m sure and he&#039;ll hit the quiet times like everyone else. so whatever is important to you, is what you  should go for. i just wouldn&#039;t make a big deal about it.  i&#039;d hand it over to someone else to take care of it if you don&#039;t want to lose anything.  and live a very happy life.  think of you first, this time.  then let this place go to whomever you want to take care of or let it go altogether.  i&#039;m sure you&#039;re a sweet person cause i can see you hanging on a little bit. 

happy life to you-----ro</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jen, ah chick. if ya aren&#8217;t sure about it and have to ask everyone then you might not be ready to just let it go.  that&#8217;s normal though after putting your life into something so long. no one else can really make your decision for you.  either give it up for whatever reason that is personal to you or hang onto it.  doesn&#8217;t matter.  you did your part. and if you give it to someone else it will be theirs and not much yours anymore.  think about that. but at least you can keep the library of photos and your information archived. </p>
<p>it&#8217;s not really up to the fans.  you know what they want.  it&#8217;s about what you want and are ready to live with.  you&#8217;re the one paying for the website.  you&#8217;re the one putting your time, effort and thoughts into it, basically your life.  if you want it, keep it even if you have to give it to someone else maintain.  just do what ya gotta do. your the decision maker. no one else was even really visiting the site dear. and it&#8217;s not because of you or because of anything you did.  it&#8217;s not because you weren&#8217;t appreciated.  you were.  it&#8217;s because of lack of interest during a very quiet time. and life has gone on for everyone else &#8211; even for hayden. and he&#8217;ll have his big moments i&#8217;m sure and he&#8217;ll hit the quiet times like everyone else. so whatever is important to you, is what you  should go for. i just wouldn&#8217;t make a big deal about it.  i&#8217;d hand it over to someone else to take care of it if you don&#8217;t want to lose anything.  and live a very happy life.  think of you first, this time.  then let this place go to whomever you want to take care of or let it go altogether.  i&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re a sweet person cause i can see you hanging on a little bit. </p>
<p>happy life to you&#8212;&#8211;ro</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by skye</title>
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		<dc:creator>skye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 01:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is such a fantastic website, I want to thank you for the 10 years you have given to all the fans of Hayden. You have put your heart and soul into this website. I hope that you wil feel comfortable with the decision you make about the website. Archiving the site would be wonderful for everyone, it would let you bow out, and let Hayden fans have access to all this information. If you find someone you trust to adopt it, that would be even better. I think you feel it is time to move on and not feel pressured to be involved in the actual running of a website. Archiving the media/gallery/video sections, if no one takes it over, would be a nice option for everyone. It seems a shame for all this work and dedication to disappear totally. I discovered this website a couple of years ago, but have only commented one other time. Thanks again and best wishes in all you do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such a fantastic website, I want to thank you for the 10 years you have given to all the fans of Hayden. You have put your heart and soul into this website. I hope that you wil feel comfortable with the decision you make about the website. Archiving the site would be wonderful for everyone, it would let you bow out, and let Hayden fans have access to all this information. If you find someone you trust to adopt it, that would be even better. I think you feel it is time to move on and not feel pressured to be involved in the actual running of a website. Archiving the media/gallery/video sections, if no one takes it over, would be a nice option for everyone. It seems a shame for all this work and dedication to disappear totally. I discovered this website a couple of years ago, but have only commented one other time. Thanks again and best wishes in all you do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Jhené</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10859</link>
		<dc:creator>Jhené</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 23:47:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jen,

I think I was 17 when I first visited your website, since then I followed your posts regularly. 
Now, I&#039;m turning 26 and I realize I kind of grew up with this site which was my number one source about Hayden until today ! 

I can&#039;t even imagine how many hours you&#039;ve worked on it during all these years. 
You always provided it with exclusive media, HQ pictures, not to mention the &quot;birthday projects&quot; you&#039;ve set up, etc... 
Your dedicated love and work for this fansite is just amazing ! So I may say it&#039;s not only a website that I would be missing, but a little part of me too, I guess it would always refer to a period of my life.

I would feel selfish to tell you not to close the website. If it was your first decision, it means that you need to close it. It&#039;s been 10 years, after everything you&#039;ve done I think you deserve to move on. 
Besides, if you can no longer spend time on it, this passion may risk to become a chore, which would be a shame.

I guess the wiser decision for you and the fans would be to let your friends take care of it if it&#039;s what they want.
In this way, you&#039;re not abandoning your &quot;baby&quot; and will always be able to keep an eye on things from a distance.

No matter what decision you&#039;ll make, think of what would be best for you first, alright ?

Thank you for your amazing job, I&#039;m really grateful for everything you&#039;done so far, I wish all the best for you !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jen,</p>
<p>I think I was 17 when I first visited your website, since then I followed your posts regularly.<br />
Now, I&#8217;m turning 26 and I realize I kind of grew up with this site which was my number one source about Hayden until today ! </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t even imagine how many hours you&#8217;ve worked on it during all these years.<br />
You always provided it with exclusive media, HQ pictures, not to mention the &#8220;birthday projects&#8221; you&#8217;ve set up, etc&#8230;<br />
Your dedicated love and work for this fansite is just amazing ! So I may say it&#8217;s not only a website that I would be missing, but a little part of me too, I guess it would always refer to a period of my life.</p>
<p>I would feel selfish to tell you not to close the website. If it was your first decision, it means that you need to close it. It&#8217;s been 10 years, after everything you&#8217;ve done I think you deserve to move on.<br />
Besides, if you can no longer spend time on it, this passion may risk to become a chore, which would be a shame.</p>
<p>I guess the wiser decision for you and the fans would be to let your friends take care of it if it&#8217;s what they want.<br />
In this way, you&#8217;re not abandoning your &#8220;baby&#8221; and will always be able to keep an eye on things from a distance.</p>
<p>No matter what decision you&#8217;ll make, think of what would be best for you first, alright ?</p>
<p>Thank you for your amazing job, I&#8217;m really grateful for everything you&#8217;done so far, I wish all the best for you !</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Stacy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 23:08:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I say archive it (at least the Gallery/ video stuff that may not be found elsewhere) and move on.  You put too much work into this site to just hand it over, and who&#039;s to say that whomever might take it over would stay true to your vision?  Anyone who is so invested in Hayden that they would be angry at you for closing maybe should devote that energy into building their own Hayden website.  Just a thought. You have no obligation to anyone, Hayden and his fans included.  Do what your gut tells you. You&#039;ve done a great job!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I say archive it (at least the Gallery/ video stuff that may not be found elsewhere) and move on.  You put too much work into this site to just hand it over, and who&#8217;s to say that whomever might take it over would stay true to your vision?  Anyone who is so invested in Hayden that they would be angry at you for closing maybe should devote that energy into building their own Hayden website.  Just a thought. You have no obligation to anyone, Hayden and his fans included.  Do what your gut tells you. You&#8217;ve done a great job!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye to DH.Net? by Jessica West</title>
		<link>http://desiringhayden.net/goodbye-to-dh-net/comment-page-1/#comment-10857</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica West</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 22:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>PLEASE DON&#039;T SHUT DOWN THE WEBSITE OR GIVE YOUR &quot;BABY&quot; AWAY TO SOMEONE ELSE. I HAVE BEEN A FAN OF HAYDEN FOR 7 YEARS. THIS WEBSITE IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AWESOME.  LIKE ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE , TRY TO KEEP THIS SITE IF YOU CAN. PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE KEEP THIS SITE OPEN ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PLEASE DON&#8217;T SHUT DOWN THE WEBSITE OR GIVE YOUR &#8220;BABY&#8221; AWAY TO SOMEONE ELSE. I HAVE BEEN A FAN OF HAYDEN FOR 7 YEARS. THIS WEBSITE IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AWESOME.  LIKE ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE , TRY TO KEEP THIS SITE IF YOU CAN. PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE KEEP THIS SITE OPEN ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
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